on second thought the tag itself is doubly wrong
m4m = man steal another man's partner*. no guarantee it's a woman. just cus most works are gonna be hetero, doesnt mean the tag should exclude other scenarios
so there are 4 permutations:
m4m = man steals man's partner
f4f = woman steals woman's partner
f4m = woman steals man's partner
m4f = man steals woman's partner
issue is m4m reads like yaoi, male for male. if i saw it, I'd understand it as:
m4m = male steals someone's boyfriend
f4f = female steals someone's girlfriend
etc.
makes no sense
I asked chatgpt and "m4m" should mean "male for male". In that case the description should be "When a man steals another woman's man". I noticed many lexical errors, so maybe that's what you meant
if that's the case, it's basically "netori" + "yaoi"